July 5, 2008
The thing about body language is you want to be completely in control of it so that you can utilize body language to your own advantage...
However, you can always interpret it in different ways... For example, when a woman tosses her hair, it comes across as a nervous gesture. On the other hand, it's also a way of calling attention or showing off a gorgeous, glossy mane too!
My common gesture is arm crossing... yup, a close posture! doesn't mean that I'm not interested, it's just that I don't know where to put my hands as most of my pants/skirts have no pockets...
When I read an article this evening... this gesture can actually telegraph different message to a guy, of which I think it's somewhat true without realising it!
It's sending a message that she's a vulnerable female creature, an innocent little lamb who feels the need to protect herself from the Big Bad Wolf! or it's a primitive gesture of sexual anticipation laced with sexual anxiety, a sneaky way of drawing attention to your breasts!
Oooppsss! I did it again... LOL
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